It’s no secret that a squirting orgasm is something to be desired. It’s also no mystery that it can be difficult to achieve.
Thankfully, there are many ways to tease and stimulate the body in order to squirt. One of the easiest and most fun ways is with a vibrator.
Stimulate the G-Spot
The g-spot is located in the upper internal vaginal wall. You can locate it by inserting one or two fingers into your vagina and feeling along the top wall for an area that feels different than the surrounding tissue. This area is often slightly rougher and textured and when stimulated can lead to squirting. This technique works best with plenty of lubrication.
Once you have found the g-spot, use a light touch with your fingers or the fingertip of a vibrator to begin stimulating it. The g-spot can also be stimulated by a bullet or clitoral suction toy. Be sure to test out a variety of strokes and textures to find what feels best. Then, once you’ve felt your way around the spot and are comfortable with the pressure, increase it.
When you’re ready to move to the next step, apply a generous amount of lubrication and move the vibrator inside the vagina. Try using a firm, curved toy like the NJoy Pure Wand or something similar. This type of stimulation helps with the “come-hither” effect and can lead to squirting.
Stimulate the Clitoris
A clit stimulator is an excellent choice for anyone interested in squirting. They are available in a variety of shapes, sizes, and configurations. A popular option is the bullet vibrator which is small and easy to hide, but there are also massage wands, g-spot vibrators, clitoral vibrators, rabbit vibrators, and more. Regardless of what type of stimulation you choose, the key is to make sure you are comfortable. Relax, watch porn, read something erotic, use a sex toy, or just touch yourself to get in the mood. It’s best to do this before you try a clit stimulator, but you can use it at any point.
When you’re ready, have your partner lie down on their back. Put your hand in their vagina and reach up inside with the pointer and middle fingers. Find their spot (usually 1-3 inches in, on the top side of their vagina). Start rubbing this area with both fingers, HARD! This will stimulate the clit and bring their pleasure level up steadily. You can even move your fingers up and down the anal area to increase the intensity.
Keep in mind that it can take some time to reach the clit, and it’s not always guaranteed to result in a squirt. However, it’s worth trying and you may be surprised at how much fun it is!
Stimulate the Labia
You may be familiar with the classic magic wand or bullet vibrator. For a more discreet option, try a clitoral vibrator or g-spot vibrator that can stimulate the sensitive area between your labia. You will want to add a little lube before you begin to get the feel for it. When you’re ready to start squirting, aim the toy for the g-spot, which swells during arousal. Then, just touch it lightly and continue to rub over the area as you continue to build up your orgasm.
You’ll want to massage the area around your clitoris and g-spot with a gentle pressure. Then, move on to other areas of your vulva to increase the pleasure and your chances of squirting.
Remember that all women are different, so don’t get discouraged if it takes a while for you to feel a squirt. But when you do, take your time to enjoy the sensations and don’t let yourself become aroused or climax too soon.
Then, if you have a partner, make it a point to use your new squirting toy with them in ways that will increase their sexual pleasure and excitement as well. There is no right or wrong way to play with a vibrator, so be sure to use a little imagination and find out what works for you.
Stimulate Your Partner
For many women, squirting is a strong feeling of release that can feel sexy and different than an orgasm. You can get your body ready for a squirt by stroking and massaging your inner thighs, clitoris, and labia with the vibrator. It’s also a good idea to practice using your squirt button before trying to actually squirt.
Once you’re comfortable with your squirt toy, you can start stimulating yourself and a partner in whatever way you find most pleasurable—as long as everyone’s comfortable with it. For example, if you want to use the squirt button in tandem with foreplay, try starting with your hands or a sex toy and moving your way up the body with pressure—the frenulum (located underneath the head of the penis) is particularly sensitive and can be aroused with just the lightest touch.
It’s important to experiment with your body and what works for you, which is why it’s worth introducing your partner to vibrator bondage early on. Some people find that they can squirt from clitoral stimulation alone, while others need a combination of g-spot and clitoral stimulation from the dual-ended vibrator. Just remember that it can take a while to get there, and some people may orgasm before they squirt—it all depends on your unique body. The key is to keep stimming, and don’t stop until you reach your goal.
