Once you have your new wand vibrator and you are ready to start exploring it, there are a few things to keep in mind. First, start by easing into your pleasure time.
Try out different positions, from basic missionary to doggy style. Ultimately, you want to get yourself in the right position to stimulate your clitoris and orgasm.
Positions
While wand vibrators are amazing for clitoral stimulation (which alone can lead to incredible orgasms), they’re also versatile sex toys that can be used in a variety of positions. If you’re looking to spice up your solo sessions or arouse your partner, try out the following positions with your Magic Wand vibrator and prepare for unforgettable pleasure.
Missionary
Old faithful can be spiced up by slipping your wand in between you and your partner. This simple position allows you to reach your clitoris and stimulate it directly. Your partner’s body weight will add to the force of the wand head on your clit and result in intense orgasms.
Doggy Style
This position is a win-win for both partners. They get visual stimulation by being able to watch your clitoral stimulation and you can use the wand head to push deep into your vulva while you’re having penetrative sex. This can be a bit uncomfortable for your partner so it may help to have sex a little slower, or use a pillow or wedge like the Pillo by Dame Products to make this position more comfortable and accessible for both of you. If you find the pressure too intense, try angling the wand head slightly away from your clitoris to ease up on the pressure. Some wands even come with attachments designed for G-spot and prostate stimulation, so you can experiment with these different sensations, as well.
Settings
The Magic Wand’s reputation as ‘the Cadillac of vibrators’ is well-deserved because it has delightful rumbly vibrations, great build quality and supplies women with guaranteed intense orgasms. It’s also a powerful massager that feels amazing on the soles of your feet, the back and shoulders of your neck and hands, and it can even be used during masturbation to relieve sore muscles.
While wands are very versatile and can be enjoyed in many positions and for many purposes, they might seem overpowering to beginners or sensitive users. A layer of lube or a sheet can help make the contact between the Magic Wand and your skin less intense. The clitoral stimulation may also be too intense for some users, but you can position the head of the toy above or to the side of your clitoris to lessen the intensity of the sensations.
If you’re a newbie or more sensitive to vibrations, try the Magic Wand for pleasure alone before using it with a partner. Play with it, place it in erotic positions on your body, and experiment with the various settings and attachments until you find your favorite positions and combinations. Use a sex toy cleaner or soapy water to clean your Magic Wand after every use and keep it dry when not in use to avoid odors.
Controls
A wand vibrator is a fun addition to masturbation sessions for both partners, and it feels amazing on erogenous zones all over the body. Some models have a blindfold that makes this toy even more intense and exciting for couples.
Wands are also great for penetrative sex and can be used in a variety of ways to stimulate the anal area or clitoris. Some have attachments that allow for g-spot and prostate stimulation. Wands are also portable, so they can be taken on dates, to parties, or anywhere that a little extra pleasure is needed.
Using a wand vibrator can be an intense experience, so it’s important to start slow and work up to full power. If you find the sensation too intense, try a different position or a buffer such as a blanket or your underwear to reduce the intensity.
Despite its unapologetically straight-laced appearance, a wand vibrator can be a sexy toy for anyone. It’s easy to use and a real classic that is known to get women orgasms every time. However, it’s important to mix things up and use other types of vibrators to prevent desensitization or resentment towards your favorite toy. It’s also important to have backup toys on hand in case your wand vibrator loses its charge mid-masturbation. This is a common problem with rechargeable vibrators, but it’s not difficult to overcome.
Safety
The Magic Wand is a bonafide classic, and one of our favourites at Good Vibrations. This mighty vibrator was originally designed in 1968 by Japanese company Hitachi as an electric massager for sore muscles. But it wasn’t long before some smart woman figured out where this clunky device could get rumbly and mind-blowing.
The wand’s large head distributes those powerful, rumbly vibrations to multiple clitoral nerve endings at once, and can be revved up to the insane setting, if that’s your thing. It’s not the sexiest vibrator out there (think clinical taser-like white body and three simple switch settings), but it’s a durable, reliable toy that works.
If the power of this vibrator feels too much to handle, try a barrier like your underwear or a thin pillow between you and the toy. Many people also find that using a little lube helps — just be sure to check the instructions for your specific toy for recommended lubrication and always use water-based lubes on sex toys.
If you’re sharing this toy with someone else, consider investing in a pack of wand vibrator covers that keep the toy clean and fresh between uses. They’re also great if you’re on your period or prefer a lubricant that isn’t compatible with the head, and they make cleaning your toy a breeze.
